I think you need to read through some past threads to get the context LoveMeNow.
It wasn't anyones fault when I drank - tho I did blame people at the time.
I had myself in some pretty codependent and maladjusted relationships though.
Like I said earlier, I either had to fundamentally change the way I reacted to things, or change the situation itself.
I still think that's good advice
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