Originally Posted by Sadconfused

I am shocked by his calmness, it is worriesome to me but I honestly think he just isnt taking me all that serious right now and as I dont back down his anger will start to surface. I hope not but Im not expecting it to be this simple. Anyways I feel liberated and almost proud! I finally said exactly what I wanted to. Part of me keeps feeling bad or sad like I should throw him a bone but I just keep telling myself thats just me being codependent and he is a big boy that can handle his own if he wants to. But most of me feels like singing and dancing and well just happy. Its a little step but one that has made me feel a little stronger as long as I dont think about what he feels.