Amen, sister. The "what if's" kept me stuck in fear for years. The "coulda, woulda, shoulda's" took me back each time I tried to move ahead.
"What if he doesn't handle it very well?" I asked.
"Then," my friend replied, "you're going to have to handle it well."
Taking the "what if's" all the way through...and looking at worst case scenario is what let me move past it because faith taught me to be strong, to have courage and let myself be led, knowing that whatever happened, I would be okay. And I am.
"What if's" mean fear, faith is the antidote to fear...so just for today I will walk in faith and let life unfold as it may.
Hugs