Welcome! According to my ex, I am a horrid person. I am crazy. All I want to do is fight. I am not happy unless I am angry. I am boring, I never want to do anything. I am lazy. I am selfish. I never pick up after myself, I never take a shower and make myself presentable. My wardrobe is hideous. My kids are spoiled rotten no good brats. Even my cat sucks. Good for you for seeing him for what he is early enough that you didnt almost start to believe it.