@Talana
Seems you have gained some insight into what really happened here. What your friend said is not about you at all: It speaks volumes about where she is. I don't mean to judge her, for I have been exactly who she is. During my drinking days I found non-drinkers intolerable. I said it was because they were dull or stuffy or no fun at all. The real truth was that their abstinence reflected just how out of control I had become. For years I kept changing "friends," although by the end I really didn't have many of those. Whatever associates I had were for the purpose of drinking. Clearly she sees you as a sober person. Maybe one day she will ask you how you did it.