Wow good topic but sad. My adbf lied from beginning to end to cover up his drug life....he was arrested and first thing he said is he's so glad he doesn't have to live the lie anymore....so it is a life of lies!! Sure some truth was said of course but when hiding an alter ego there's gona b tons of lies....one positive note...he did just the other day not call when he was supposed to..when I was upset when he told me he was very tired etc...he said his buddy told him just tell her the phones in there were down n shell never know the difference....he told me he wouldn't lie to me again and even though I was mad, he took that road of honesty instead of lying and making it easier on himself. People can change....