How to understand childrens reactions......
Ok, so the pfa is in place, the move is done and I am letting AH have his time with the kids as long as there are no issues. I am now in a different school district. The pfa has me having custody until November. Both of my children have told me that they want to switch schools in the fall. My daughter keeps bringing up the subject and asking when we are telling daddy. I had talked to AH briefly last night and had him on speaker, my daughter walks in as I was telling him that it will take quite some time to see if this marriage is fixable. My daughter says, " yea like five yrs". While she is laughing and joking. They both seem fine about the situation. Neither one has shown sadness, or anger. I am trying to make this as easy for them as possible. I just am not sure if they are excited about a new house or are really glad that I left. Any advice?