Originally Posted by
Vale 
They are in what I call FEBM/FTC mode (the 'F' you can
guess) ...but the 'EBM' stands for 'everyone but me' and the 'TC' stands for 'the consequences'.
Boy, did you really hit the nail on the head with this, Vale!! Back in December, when my XA threw his OWN 'birthday bash' at the bar (my therapist found it very interesting that he threw his own party) and didn't invite me, I saw pix of him from that night on FB. What happened to be on his T-shirt that night?? They were two hands, one was giving the middle finger and the other was pointing out at whoever was looking at the shirt.....so, he was basically saying "F you, F everyone, F the world, etc." That should have been a MAJOR red flag to me about how much he values other people, ya think??
