From my limited knowledge, I see a woman that has spent a year in misery after a shorter honeymoon beginning of the relationship, and hasn't known the man two years yet...7 months compared to nearly a year...more time in misery than in happiness...and not married to the guy...you freed yourself from a marriage that didn't work, why would you stay in a situation that is less invested, but perhaps even more miserable? you have choices here!
Your limited contact rule is very good for you right now!