Wow- now you do sound a lot more like me. I live in a town that is enclosed in one square mile, only accessible by air, and made up of maybe 4000 at most at any given time. I know very well that AA is not always anonymous. EVERYONE here knows who's in AA, who's getting counseling, who went out for treatment, etc.
I haven't tried anything more than SR. I found talking about it, reading other people's posts, etc- it helps. A lot. And watching youtube videos for AA when possible.
Sometimes, internet is the only option. At least, I really, really hope it can be for both our sakes.