My mother is helping out by transporting the children back and forth from school and taking me to some of my appointments and a neighbor and now good friend has been helping me during the day with my toddler. The children are all pitching in.I can't understand how he can live with himself (or his mother for that matter) not helping out. I believe that they are in denial about my conditions and my mother in law is convincing my husband that I'm making it up to get his attention and keep him clean. I've been to the hospital, doctor's, specialist, did a CT Scan yesterday, put on bed rest,several medications and have many more procedures coming up.I'm putting off going to the rheumologist right now until this is under control.