Sometimes I think we get too caught up in details. Whether it is 90/90 or something else. I went to as many meetings as I could but also had to WORK the program. Remember that alcoholism is only mentioned in half of the first step. All the rest are about living a better more fulfilling life. People are always going to try and tell me I am a failure for this or that. I am no good at something or another. I do not give those people the power over me to make me feel worse about my recovery. I keep working, growing and moving forward.