I've found that when I quit and didn't really commit to quoting, I waited around grumpy until I gave in and drank again. It was like I was on hold, just waiting. Which in turn, make me angry and irritable. However, when I decided I wanted to quit for real, and I actively started pursuing a sober life, things got a lot better. If you really want to quit, you have to actively pursue it, and make monumental changes in your life to make it happen. JMO