Shaun, I was so sad to read this. I feel like I know you and was really knocked for a loop that you relapsed and then all this.
Get into and work a solid recovery program. Get a good lawyer. Use every connection you can to ask round and find a good one. Make sure the dog has a good home.
I just hate this whole situation and the bottom line is this. Drinking helped NOTHING...but caused a LOT of damage and laid the way for a lot more serious damage. Had enough?
Join the ranks of the finally, truly and for real sober ones.
We don't want to lose you.