Originally Posted by
mareahh 
This is what I'm doing. I'm obsessing over him using drugs again. He tells me that I can't worry about that because ill be miserable. He says well I don't want to use drugs. I don't have plans on doing drugs. What's that mean?!?
It means to me that you are codependent and its time to address your own issues. Codependent No More is a great book to start you own recovery.