Originally Posted by
Woohoo 
I am so sorry you are hurting, but i agree with the others..she isn't ready..she needs to find herself now. Do what makes you happy and know you did your best for her and gave her all you had. It is NOT you it is her problems. Hang in there and God bless!
Thank you, those were almost her exact words. It is not me. It is her problems.
Sad part, as much as I know it is out of my hands, I just want to be there to help her.
But ya know what? Looking back, I tried that in the past and wasn't capable of doing anything to help when I really think about it.
As all SOs know, the feeling of helplessness is the worst part.
You want to get "tagged in" and kick this thing's a$$ for the person you love.
Nevertheless, I have faith.
Not that we will get back together but that what is meant to be will.
Thanks,
S