Originally Posted by
nothopeful1 
I'm being given set amount of money for bills, groceries etc. yes. He's doing that on purpose IMO.
Check with an attorney. Most will offer a free consultation. You might learn that you are entitled to a lot more than he has been giving you.
As far as meeting with family......take what you like and leave the rest (Alanon slogan). They will offer their opinions, but a lawyer will tell you what your LEGAL rights are in this situation.