ahh wicked, my dear lovely, I wish I could rent (pimp) out hank for a month or so...I swear he's like the walking embodiment of being yourself. first night we met....during a rather, um, intimate, moment he said....you are such a passionate woman, why can't you tell me what you want?? first time ever someone had SEEN me and GOT me. he has so few barriers, walls, defenses, against the world....for him what happens just.....happens.
evidently the Universe knew I needed some serious help...cuz hank has been like vitamins....he says I did the same for him....helped him be more of who he was meant to be. mind you I was married when we met, we had to deal with crack addiction, and then got to here, at the lakehouse, 11 years later.
here's the thing. had he and I NOT met, I would still have moved and changed and developed. I would not be HERE, but I would be somewhere. hank didn't get me here.....the choices I made along MY path brought me here.