Sure do. Hostile family members and all. In my case, they didn't blame me for the drinking, but they DID blame me for "abandoning" him when he was sick.
Too effin' bad--I went through one deathbed vigil where he almost didn't make it--I wasn't signing on for another self-inflicted health crisis.
Maybe the "no contact" should be for good, at this point? One day at a time. Take care of yourself.
Hugs,