mmm. great post.
lets here it for routines! This may be one of the few groups in the world who would consider a reliable, calm routine, day in, day out, to be incredibly attractive.
I no longer want drama, days lost, emotional seesaw. Reliability and stability are looking way sexier than they did when I was younger. If I wrote a romcom today, my ideal hunk would be all safe predictability, not grand romantic gestures. Like a toyota corrolla instead of a hot-rod. I want a partner who gets good mileage, with a great safety rating and reliable engineering that wont break down.
Anyone else find boring newly attractive?