You nailed it Maylie. Yeah, and his mom and sister. It would have been great if they would have helped me deal with him but they believe his lies. I am the crazy one. They didn't go to the dr and to the counselor and to the few na/aa meetings we went to. They didn't have their money stolen, their bank account negative, and bills unpaid, lied to constantly. They just think he is this great son and brother. And he is a good man, but this is not him and I have finally realized it. When I first found out about everything over 6 months ago, I just kept telling everyone that he is such a good husband, and good man. I could not let that go.
I am aware of so many things his sister has done to betray me through out this whole ordeal. I have read some text messages from her. All because I told his mom.
I have to get my life together. For me.
Thank you for responding. It helps a lot.