I got out of a 6 year relationship just before I was 30- BEST decision of my life! It hurt like hell at the time, but I got through it. I have my lion's share of problems still. BUT now- I do have a strong marriage with the love of my life. I would've never found him were it not for taking that time for myself, and learning what I want and don't want in my life. Life is short, you are young- sounds to me that you are REALLY on the right path! TY for sharing your story. :-)