Your husband probably doesn't want to deal with the monster we can become when you take our booze away. My husband use to say all the time go have a drink chill out (he doesn't drink) meanwhile a drink was always close to two bottles of wine. I always said I'm not drink I only had two glasses no matter how much I had!
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