I'd agree with the last few posters Frampbell. That's a great sign that your husband is communicating again. I'd hold off on pushing to set up meetings/fix all these issues until time heals the wounds. We can't just "fix" all the damage we've done in the past with a few meetings or text message. If people approach you directly to talk about the issues, then by all means share if you feel comfortable - but personally I don't think pushing the issue is going to help anything.