Thanks to all responding once again. I'm hearing some hard truths here today, but these are things that need to be said, and things I need to learn. I don't think that I'll be able to help her (by convincing her to get more serious treatment). She has already voiced her aggressive opposition to this in the past (regarding her metal health, not alcohol).
So if I ended things, I'm about 95% sure she'd simply find a friend to move in with rather than seek out help.
I don't know, I'm absorbing all of this, reading more on this site, and considering going to an alanon meeting. So I hope I'm at least headed in the right direction, and at the very least, not doing any immediate damage.
