And in response to jmartin, I'm not sure she's even ready to admit anything anyway. Any time we've talked about it, she has had plenty of justifications and excuses as to why it's not a problem. Everything from "This is just your view of how someone is supposed to drink," to "It just takes me more to get a buzz because I have a high tolerance," to "I just feel like having a cocktail to wind down after work."
So yeah, I don't see her admitting she has a problem. She most definitely does not think she does.
Okay, good advice. I'll try to stay away from telling her what to do. The only reason I gave her that "1-2 drinks per week " guideline is because she told me to tell her exactly what I wanted. I was hesitant, but she pushed it...