Take your power back. Realize he treats you like a puppet on a string.
Stops you from going to work on time? Does he want you to lose your job? Would he like it if you were that much more dependent upon him?
Think of that old saying about who wears the pants in the family. Everytime you confront him, imagine that you wear the pants, and he wears the skirt. Talk in an authoritative tone of voice when he tries to stop you from going to work on time. Cut him off instantly--I am going to work, and I AM going to be on time.
It sounds like part of what is happening here is that he is so used to being able to jerk you around like a puppet, and that you react instead of respond, and he enjoys all this. He likes having this power over you.
Take YOUR power back!