I'm glad you're here. Maybe try some online AA meetings? I think I've read on here that some people do those. If you're truly concerned about your anonymity being blown, but feel comfortable posting here, maybe that's something that would work for you?
I agree with melivinsober, it's hard to learn new coping skills. I really feel like I need my AA group, people that have been there, and recovered, to help show me the path to recovery. I couldn't do it alone with a book or reading a website or whatever. I need the people here at SR and at AA to help me through this.
Good luck with your 30 days of sobriety!