So glad that you are here. I can relate with you. I move from Florida to Utah beleiving that I was going to get married, only to find out my fiance was an alcoholic. I was shock, he knew I am in recovery. Yes, he is the sweet, kind, gentle, funny, and alot of other good things when he is sober. But when he drinks, he passes out, not fun, can't do anything and very, very mean. This is not what I want. I had to go my way and continue to live and not let him bring me down, yes it was hard, but something I had to do for myself. Yes, I tried to hang in there, but he has to want to be sober. At that time he decided to continue to drink starting at 4a. I decided to move on.