atalose - i just got off the phone with my friend who told me the same thing!
outtolunch - he does not have a key to my home. i took that back from him awhile ago. i left his stuff on the deck under my grill cover for that reason and told him to come get them while i was at work.
hanna - i realize i was sarcastic completely. the point is that he already knew he owed that money to me and told me he would give it to me and he chose not to.
I refuse to ask him for it again. It's not worth it. I know that. I'm just upset about it but will shrug it off over time. Again, I refuse to allow this to be the thing that keeps me in contact with him. He knows he owes me money. If he wants to pay it back, fine. If he doesn't I accept it. It still doesn't take away being upset about it.