Wow. That is probably what it was Ann. That had to be really weird for you. So upsetting. You are very insightful. Thanks for sharing that also because now I know I'm not alone in my feelings.
I guess it did bring that back because it started going through my mind that "Hey if it was me that took it I'd have also took everything else along with it, and I wouldn't be here right now". That little voice in my head disgusted me. I'm still not sure she totally trusted me. She still sleeps with a money envelope down her girdle. The WORSE part was that my daughter was getting ready for school, and I didn't want her to leave for the day thinking "Here she goes again". It worked out though.
Hopefully you won't experience that again. Plus you were by yourself as your husband had already left. You're doing great though. Thanks again.