CompletelyLost4
It sounds like he's not much of a catch at the moment - but if there is something salvageable there - you can pretty much stop a divorce from happening almost up until the very end of the process. If he's serious and it sticks, hooray. Unfortunately, it is likely true that it will always be something! Listen to what Lexie and Anvil are telling you and then listen to his actions not his words. In the meantime, keep doing what is best for you!
Trust yourself, you knew that it was your codie brain kicking in when he told you about the meds. And the codie brain is the one that kept us in these relationships to the point of misery.
Your doing great. Keep it up.
Sending hugs and support.
MamaKit