Congrats for getting off the roller coaster. when I divorced it was the same issue, no real assets, just petty "I want half" crap. Ok, one lamp, one couch, one end table, one dresser. So I gave it ALL to him! I started over with $13 in furniture from the Salvation Army and it was the best move I ever made.
Pick your battles and dont sweat the small stuff. He will be looking for a fight, dont give it to him.
Keep your chin up!