That is good to hear. Not picking her up lets her work the program in rehab. I hope that she will continue the work when she gets home. I know that you want what is best for your daughter. I think sometimes, things can get clouded with family. Sometimes we want to save our family members from harsh realities. The best thing that you can do for yourself and your family is to get help for dealing with a family member that is an addict. There are many tools that you can apply to your life for stability and boundaries. Stay strong. Do not take on her anger towards you as if you have done something wrong. The best thing that you have done for her is to not pick her up from rehab. We are here for you.