Mr C
I'm sorry. I was harsh yesterday. You have your own journey to go on and I was projecting mine onto your cirumstances. I was also not being a very good al-anon member. I am finding it hard to strike a balance.
I am very sensitive to manipulation, particularly at the moment. My ex A b/f is the king of manipulation, but then so would any of us if we had 41 years of practice. He doesn't even know he's doing it most of the time.
Sorry again.
Love Minnie
xxxx