Originally Posted by
desp1 
I asked her what she liked to do "two years ago" and she still hasn't thought of anything. I've got a list of interests and hobbies a mile long!
Then please start going through that list and do them. Sounds like she is keeping you from living the life you deserve, fromhaving a life at all.
You are at a point in your life where you should be relaxing, having fun - not caretaking a drunk.
Blessings,
C-OH Dad