Originally Posted by
Terrispots 
You realize you cant make this happen for her. SHE has to go to the meetings, SHE has to find one that she is comfortable in. You are trying to control/make her recovery happen, but you cant, she has to do this. If YOU find her a meeting, YOU take her to the meetings, YOU hold her had the whole way, then SHE isnt recovering.
She can't drive, take a bath by herself, look up a phone number, or remember to take her medicine...????
If I don't suggest options she will act like it isn't a problem and just sit there forever.
I asked her what she liked to do "two years ago" and she still hasn't thought of anything. I've got a list of interests and hobbies a mile long!
I understand it is up to her.....