(((((Rose))))) My heart goes out to you. I am so, so sorry that you are going through this. I sometimes think that verbal abuse is the worst of all, because that is a hurt you can't put a bandaid on. And as for the sex issue, how are you supposed to have sex with a man who hurts you so much emotionally and who can make you sick just to look at? Rose, you deserve so much better than this - you seem like such a warm and loving woman. It sounds like you are on your way to making a very big decision for your life, and like MG said, start to make a plan for leaving. You may never need it, but better to have it there. Please take care, Rose.
Love and hugs.