Originally Posted by
lizwig 
ZoZo...I'm so proud of you for recognizing this for exactly what it is! Good job! As my nanny used to say...."Good riddance to bad rubbish". Almost makes you feel sorry for the man taking the bullet you dodged....but hey....it's his path so why interfere, right? I get simple pleasure when I'm reminded of why the boundaries I've put in place are so necessary. Such validation. Smiling for you and glad you had a great breakfast....and yes..."once they are crackers they stay crispy" but only if they are sealed properly!
Actually, I don't feel sorry for him. If it's the same guy, he's an addict, too, that chose to get involved with someone who, at that moment in time, only had 10 months of clean time. This guy's 13th Stepping, big time.
But, whatever. I'm done grad school in eight days, and if my AXGF were still in the picture, I'm 100% certain I would not be where I am today. So, I'm thankful that she dumped my arse and proved once and for all that she's sicker than sick.