Hugs, mmk11! Way to keep it real!
I have a lot of really similar feelings toward my XAH, although we haven't met face-to-face in over a year. I will have to go through the divorce negotiations with him soon, and I'm not looking forward to the snideness and pity party manipulations. I feel so done with that. I don't even want to subject myself to it for another minute! I'm not sure I would have such a calm reaction to it as you did. Well done! Thanks for sharing your new perspective!
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