FirstLight I would try an Alanon meeting anyway if I was you.
That's kind of funny to me that some alcoholics or family of alcoholics think they are so
above addicts or family of addicts.
My ex used to go to some AA meetings. In one of them I know it wasn't acceptable to
mention drugs. The alcoholics thought the druggies were so below them.
Violence, loud screaming matches, drunk driving??? that makes my addict ex sound
good!
He is just a very mellow/lazy guy.
Despite the differences it's all the same.