the reason that I mentioned those is
an old saying comes to mind

if we don't use it
we will lose it

it is like a muscle in any other part of the body
it needs to be worked so as to stay fit

either with or without
it appears not to matter to him
but
we as men should not short change our wives regarding their needs
just as our wives should not short change us

since you are not ok regarding this issue
seems you need to share with him
that the two of you together need to work on a remedy
so as to (((both))) be happy

onehigherpower