I dont mean to sound like she should be trying to control him - I am just saying in relationships - unless something is mandatory for work that couples should communicate and compliment each other not tear each other apart.
I am not saying that he is doing anything wrong - I feel that a relationship is built on trust and like you say, if you dont trust your partner then move on, but a healthy relationship would call for talking to each other to find out what bothers the other and if you both agree - great, if not - move on.
I agree with you Lexie no one likes to be controlled!