might be time to nail that revolving door shut. you don't need this, deserve this and this has NOTHING to do with marital duties or obligations! ok, that's MY opinion. seriously, when he's gone for days he ain't staying at the penthouse at the Hyatt, he's probably in places with people that you can't even fathom.
nuf chances eh? when people show you who they are and what they are about, BELIEVE THEM. nothing changes if nothing changes.....