Originally Posted by
26thw 
I know the hardest thing for me will be the uncomfortable situations which I will be in when we socialize. We are very active retirees and alcohol is always involved, mostly wine.
So, avoid these uncomfortable social situations until you feel stronger in your recovery. You can still stay active. Just pick find activities that aren't alcohol related.
This may mean avoiding some of your friends who still drink. But in the short term, your sobriety (and the relationship with your wife) is more important than being social butterflies.
Good luck.