Dear JBird100, with all due respect, the F&F forum is probably not the best place to take the victim role. Those of us who have loved an A have heard all of this 1000X before.
If you are resentful about the judicial system and having misdemeanors....you brought that on yourself. You are responsible for what got you into the judicial system to begin with. If you are resentful about your family not reaching out, then live your best life and show through your actions that you mean it. Your family may be setting healthy boundaries for themselves. Some things you have no power over....like society and the city you live in. So let that go, and decide to make the best of it.
You do not sound like you are in an active recovery program. There is a difference between being sober, and working a true recovery. I hope you seek AA, find a sponsor, and start to work through all your resentments. In AA you will find the people who can truly support you if you're serious about recovery and having a real life.