Welcome, Sunshine! I am very new here myself; I have only 2 suggestions I am able to offer right now:
1. Read as much as you can on this site, and in other areas of the forums too. There are some great links to resources, and there are many helpful articles posted as well as suggestions on books.
2. Alanon might be a good "in person" starting place for you. A couple of folks in this section of the forum have just posted about their first meeting. Here are the links:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...t-meeting.html and
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...8840-made.html
Sorry you are in a situation that brings you here but glad you found us; wishing you all the best