I'm only three months out of my marriage and I cannot imagine dating anyone for a very long time.. Both my head and my heart are screwed up right now and the thought of actually committing to someone again terrifies me...
Don't put a time limit on your healing.. Judging from your post maybe you not ready to date yet, you still have healing to do and that's ok.. If the guy truly cares about you and your well being he will let you go and not try to pressure you UNO staying in a relationship with him.. You are smart to recognize that perhaps you are not ready yet .. There is nothing wrong with you.. You just need more time to heal