Dear Debysue, I understand how you are feeling. My AS is 23 and currently in jail. I would just say this. Sometimes, prison is the best thing for addicts who are out of control. It sounds like he is not respecting your boundaries and your expectations. You may just consider getting a restraining order against him and advising him that if he comes back on your property, you will call the police. Let that be the warning. if he disobeys that ruling, then he will go to jail. I would let you know also that meth changes the brain of an addict and it takes a long spell of abstinence to regain some of the normalcy of a meth addled brain. I also encourage you to take care of your health and your husband. Your son has taken advantage of you and needs to live life the way he chooses without putting you or yours in harms way.
God Bless, it is very hard having an addict child
TT