Thanks for letting me vent, Members. I've been going to Al-Anon meetings 2 or 3 times a week for a month. My AW has no desire to stop drinking. I feel that the only way I will ever attain serenity is to divorce her. It will be tough splitting all of the property and paying her alimony, but even if I have to lower my standard of living at least I'll have a reasonable chance of having a peaceful, tranquil life.